Dear —,
You have three offers you do not want and a project you have not finished, and you wrote to me at two in the morning, which tells me more than the offers do. You are not lost. You are unwilling to spend three years on something whose ending you can already see.
I spent four years on a thing whose ending I could see. It paid well, and it cost me the only decade in which I had that particular kind of energy. What I understood too late is that the safe option is not the one with the salary. It is the one you would still choose if nobody were watching.
“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.”
So finish the project. Not perfectly, and not for an audience. Give it 14 days, put it in front of five strangers who owe you nothing, and write to me on the Friday after with what they said. I will ask if you do not.
I am making a bet on you. I have been wrong before, and less often than you would think.
— Wisdom

